confnement ending soon..........

my confinement will officially end next thursday( labour day), my confinement lady will go back Malaysia. She has been a great help to me and takes care of me and my baby very well.

My c-sec wound is almost painless liao, juz a bit uncomfortable, I think in another one or two weeks, I should be able to be as mobile as b4, juz that cannot carry too heavy things. I cannot carried my 1st girl as she is now 9kg plus. 2 weeks ago, try to catch her down from bed and end up injured my left hand. Now my hand got no strength.

On 1 May, after sending off my confinement lady, I will shift myself and baby back to Jurong. Have to try to let the 2 girls live together and have to start potty train my 1st girl. She will be going to child care in July, hope by then she will be potty trained.

I hope my 1st girl will be able to accept "meimei", worried that she might be jealous.

finally..... the name for my baby

finally we have decided on the name for baby. We have very few options, as the names given by the fortune master all not nice. So in the end, we find another word with the same number of strokes to replace the 3rd word in the name.

So my girl will be call 叶 怡 杉. my 1st girl is call 叶 怡 伶. So the 2nd word in the name is the same. We wanted both girls to be happy, so we want to keep the word 怡.

confinement

I'm doing my confinement now. Still not able to walk like normal after c-section. Can still feel a bit of pain when changing position like getting up from bed, getting up from sitting etc. I think i'm those kind that is very scare of small and prolong pain. until now i still dun dare to look at my wound.

My baby arrived on 1st April 2008. weighing 2.84kg. seems like its a right choice to go for c-section. This baby is bigger than my 1st girl.

Persis and Janice:
Thanks for the soft toy and flowers. Has been a long time since i last met both of u.
can send some of the photos to my email linekumo@singnet.com.sg? if file too big, maybe send using mutiple mails.:)