谬思.
"语不惊人死不休", 我的大女儿说的话给我的就是这种感觉.
她不想叫人时,她就会说:"我没有声音,不可以叫XX."
她想要人抱她时,她会说:"我的脚很痛,我不可以走路."
(而且还很爱演,边走边哭,声泪俱下)
她病了一个星期,星期一早上终于可以上学. 她不想上学,就说:"我生病,不可以去学校."
星期二早上依然不想上学.她说:"今天不用去学校,学校要关了."
小孩子都爱过生日,可是她却说:"我不要happy birthday."
(因为我每天都提醒她,她8月的生日以后就不可以再使用纸尿片了,要到厕所去,因为已经3岁了.)
当我们不顺从她的"旨意"时,她就会说:"XX坏蛋,弄girl girl生气,不可以弄girl girl 生气."
生病要看医生时,她说:"我不要看那个新的医生,我要旧的."
(因为我带她看一位新的儿科医生,那位女医生蛮凶的,可以"治"她)
生病的那个星期,我破例在夜里/凌晨数次起身泡奶给她喝,因为她白天都没胃口吃东西.
这几天她依旧嚷着要我起来泡奶.她先是说:"我要喝nei nei." (发现我没反应)
后说:"我肚子很饿,妈妈我肚子很饿."(懂得博取同情,哭闹得令我揪心,每一次都差点儿投降.)
我不理她,耍酷装狠,她闹闹20分钟左右,就放弃了.
她老爸最可怜,常常被我们母女的战争吵得无法安睡.
她的胃口分明回来了,我问过学校老师了,她在学校有如常吃东西.
可是在我家婆的家吃晚饭时,总是装出很没有胃口的样子.
总是说:"不好吃",不然就说:"我不要吃粥,我要吃肉肉."
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好难对付的一个3岁小孩.
到底遗传了什么基因?我好像没那么爱演.真是青出于蓝.
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小孩子怎么会说谎呢?如果没有人教他,没有人让他模仿,他依旧会说出第一个谎言吗?
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人之初,性本善
还是性本恶?
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
can 3 years old do this?
Last Sunday my big girl more or less recovered from her illness. So can go childcare on Monday. That evening, she suddenly complain of right leg, the area behind her knee is painful and start crying. And she "volunteer" to go see doctor. She was at my in law house eating dinner when she complain of the pain. And we hurrily eat our dinner and grab her to go see doctor. Sunday is a bad day to see doctor, not many clinic open on sunday nite. We had to go home and take our things. When we reach home, put her down, she is quite happy, without any signs of pain, and busy playing again. I am actually quite suspicious of her leg pain, as she will say he leg pain when she dun wan to walk and ask me to carry her. Was wondering if the knee pain was another strategy of hers. Me and hubby tried to trick her into telling the "truth". But she always can pinpoint the same area where she say its pain. We were hoping she will forget which leg and say the wrong leg. But she was very consistent.
2 hrs later, she complain of the same pain. And it happened very sudden. She was crying so badly and we quickly bring her to a 24 hr clinic in Bishan. But on the way, she was not in pain. And when we reached there, she played happily at the playground without any signs of pain. And she walk normally. Can jump can run. We waited for some time b4 go in the clinic. The lady say we should go KK instead of coming here. Going KK will probably end up waiting for hours. And my hubby need to go airport to catch his plane at 4am. We decided not to go that nite. But wait and see how things go. I can bring her to KK if neccessary the next day.
We decide to go back home. But my girl refuse to go home. She still wanted to play. And she wants to go "gai gai". We put her in the car seat. And she complain of the leg pain again. This make us very suspicious of the leg pain issue.
Anyway we went home, and she was cranky all the way becoz she dun wan to go home but want to play. We reached home quite late. And my hubby was the most tired as he barely had enough sleep for a few days already.
Now 3 days have passed, her leg pain issue is not valid already. I was wondering, was that one of her strategic planning to aviod going to school?Or to give herself an opportunity of going out of the house?Or to get more of our attention? or ?
2 hrs later, she complain of the same pain. And it happened very sudden. She was crying so badly and we quickly bring her to a 24 hr clinic in Bishan. But on the way, she was not in pain. And when we reached there, she played happily at the playground without any signs of pain. And she walk normally. Can jump can run. We waited for some time b4 go in the clinic. The lady say we should go KK instead of coming here. Going KK will probably end up waiting for hours. And my hubby need to go airport to catch his plane at 4am. We decided not to go that nite. But wait and see how things go. I can bring her to KK if neccessary the next day.
We decide to go back home. But my girl refuse to go home. She still wanted to play. And she wants to go "gai gai". We put her in the car seat. And she complain of the leg pain again. This make us very suspicious of the leg pain issue.
Anyway we went home, and she was cranky all the way becoz she dun wan to go home but want to play. We reached home quite late. And my hubby was the most tired as he barely had enough sleep for a few days already.
Now 3 days have passed, her leg pain issue is not valid already. I was wondering, was that one of her strategic planning to aviod going to school?Or to give herself an opportunity of going out of the house?Or to get more of our attention? or ?
Thursday, July 23, 2009
doc visit again
Yesterday nite send my girl to see pd again. She cough non stop for half an hour. I so scare something wrong with her lungs. HOw come keep coughing cannot stop. Got more medicine for her. She seems very tired today.
My mum say my small girl also like want to fall sick like that. Temp a bit on the high side. Maybe my big girl pass the virus to her last sunday.
See how tomolo. Maybe leave my big girl with my in law and I bring my small girl to see PD. I hope my small girl dun fall sick.
My mum say my small girl also like want to fall sick like that. Temp a bit on the high side. Maybe my big girl pass the virus to her last sunday.
See how tomolo. Maybe leave my big girl with my in law and I bring my small girl to see PD. I hope my small girl dun fall sick.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
still fever
my big girl still running a fever. Today is 4th day already. Seen PD on monday. Fever still quite high. average of 39 degree. She din attend childcare since monday. Tomolo I will take care of her myself at home. Friday probably the same also. If she is still having fever on friday. I will not bring my small girl back for this weekend. If not the virus spreads to my small girl then even worse. Already cranky enough.
Today I have tuition, as I shifted my monday tuition to today. I thought she will be well by now. So have to send her to my in law house when I go tuition. Cancel my driving lesson which is tomolo and friday.
Today I have tuition, as I shifted my monday tuition to today. I thought she will be well by now. So have to send her to my in law house when I go tuition. Cancel my driving lesson which is tomolo and friday.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
my big girl is sick
my big girl is sick. Fever. bad cough. My hubby took her see GP this morning. Sunday PD not opened. Evening time her fever still did not go down after eating the med. We brought her to see another GP just now. Got a stronger fever med. Her fever now 40 degree. Very high.
Tomorrow I will let her stay at home. I will try sell my Tues driving lesson slot. I think Tuesday most probably have to keep her at home also. Wait until her fever no more then let her go childcare.
Tomorrow I will let her stay at home. I will try sell my Tues driving lesson slot. I think Tuesday most probably have to keep her at home also. Wait until her fever no more then let her go childcare.
Monday, July 13, 2009
this week schedule
more or less the same for every week.
Today tuition.
Tuesday morn driving lesson. afternoon go Jurong play with my small girl.
weds morning tuition. Afternoon knitting class.
Thurs morn driving lesson. Afternoon go Jurong.
Fri bring my big girl out to play. After that go Jurong.
Today tuition.
Tuesday morn driving lesson. afternoon go Jurong play with my small girl.
weds morning tuition. Afternoon knitting class.
Thurs morn driving lesson. Afternoon go Jurong.
Fri bring my big girl out to play. After that go Jurong.
last saturday lunch at IMM
Had lunch at longbeach seafood. The chilli crab only so so. But the food serving all quite big.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
movie day
Yesterday, I watched 2 movies. One is Ice Age. With my big girl. And went for another movie with my hubby at JP yesterday nite. Saw Cin Lee and Jiamin at level one of JP, if I din remember wrongly, should be at long john silver. They still look the same. I din have anytime to talk to them as I was rushing to go up the cinema for my movie. Hope they are all doing very well now.
I discovered that I still remember most of my JWSS students' names. But my AISS students' names, I can hardly remember. I din even remember which batch they graduated. My hubby say becoz I put in more effort in my 1st school and after the switch of school, I also switch off.....which is to a certain extent correct. I din put in as much effort and I din make an effort to remember the students' names if I din teach the class. But JWSS students, their names just follow me wherever I go. I really missed the days in JWSS, the times spent with students, red cross, colleuges.......I know many of them are still reading my blog....like Aziz, Serena, Sandra..... I missed those days, minus away Mr B....haha....really dun like the way he manage the school.
Back to the movie I watched yesterday nite.....Obsessed. Quite a nice movie. the lesson to learn from the movie is, dun be too friendly with the opposite sex, keep a further distance esp those you just know or strangers. Becoz if they are lunatics, then you are in trouble. Even if you did not do anything, they can self imagine all the things that did not happen. unless you know the person very well, or its an old friend, then its a different story. A new friend is always dangerous.
I discovered that I still remember most of my JWSS students' names. But my AISS students' names, I can hardly remember. I din even remember which batch they graduated. My hubby say becoz I put in more effort in my 1st school and after the switch of school, I also switch off.....which is to a certain extent correct. I din put in as much effort and I din make an effort to remember the students' names if I din teach the class. But JWSS students, their names just follow me wherever I go. I really missed the days in JWSS, the times spent with students, red cross, colleuges.......I know many of them are still reading my blog....like Aziz, Serena, Sandra..... I missed those days, minus away Mr B....haha....really dun like the way he manage the school.
Back to the movie I watched yesterday nite.....Obsessed. Quite a nice movie. the lesson to learn from the movie is, dun be too friendly with the opposite sex, keep a further distance esp those you just know or strangers. Becoz if they are lunatics, then you are in trouble. Even if you did not do anything, they can self imagine all the things that did not happen. unless you know the person very well, or its an old friend, then its a different story. A new friend is always dangerous.
Thursday, July 09, 2009
day out tomorrow
tomolo I am bringing my big girl to watch movie. Ice age.
Going to spotlight to buy more knitting wool also.
Going to spotlight to buy more knitting wool also.
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
side effects from MMR jab
My small girl had fever and runny nose yesterday. Could be side effects from last friday MMR jab. Coz the side effects will only come 5 to 7 days after the jab. And can last up to 2 weeks. (if I get the facts right)
Din get to sleep much yesterday. She slept at 1am and wake up 4 am. I had to entertain her by "reading" books for her. Then she slept at about 6am.
I send my big girl down to childcare centre at 8am. She is still sleeping currently.
Later I will bring her to see a PD in Yishun area. She is very cranky becoz of her nose. Going to get some medicine.
Last nite was a disaster. My big girl also slept at about 1am. She keep saying dun wan to sleep and wan to play with meimei. But when she play with meimei, always end up snatching things. When we ask her to "exchange" things with meimei, instead of snatching away from her, she will find some "useless" things to exchange. And its always those that meimei dun wan.
Din get to sleep much yesterday. She slept at 1am and wake up 4 am. I had to entertain her by "reading" books for her. Then she slept at about 6am.
I send my big girl down to childcare centre at 8am. She is still sleeping currently.
Later I will bring her to see a PD in Yishun area. She is very cranky becoz of her nose. Going to get some medicine.
Last nite was a disaster. My big girl also slept at about 1am. She keep saying dun wan to sleep and wan to play with meimei. But when she play with meimei, always end up snatching things. When we ask her to "exchange" things with meimei, instead of snatching away from her, she will find some "useless" things to exchange. And its always those that meimei dun wan.
Monday, July 06, 2009
this week
Today I am at home with 2 monsters. Today my big girl's childcare centre is closed for holiday. And I decide to keep my small girl with me for 2 days b4 sending her to Jurong again. Shifted my tuition to Thursday afternoon.
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