another recent news

Recently the news on the NTU female graduate ending speech at graduation day with a "we f____king did it". err.... seriously I think no matter how one tries to side with her, the usage of the word in that context is too much. You can use it in gathering with friends etc, But not in formal occasions and graduation day is a formal event. Alot of people, esp western ones, they do use words like that, but they didn't use that in formal occasion. Why? becuase they know when and where and how to use the word. Not like many youngsters today, just use for the sake of using.

some may argue that adding a "ing" will have a different meaning to the original F word. But I don't think so. A negative word, adding "ing" will still be negative. Only positive words addding "ing" will be positive. SO don't try to make the word looks positive. It can never be. And don't try to say that in that mood you have to use that word. Why cannot just say "we did it!" with a proper action, or "we really did it!", your tone of voice and body language will tell people your mood, you don't need to use that bloody word to bring out the mood.

So no point keep defending her. When your EQ is low, it is low. WHen you make a mistake, just apologize and carry on your life. Defending and arguing doesn't help at all. really disappointed with those NTU lecturers who side with her. If she don't learned her lesson now, she is going to use the F word more often in future and create a fool out of herself, maybe a bigger joke next time. If using that word is fine, then why didn't the politicians use it in rallies and elections and maybe NDP? So the word is actually and really not fine lor.......

only positive words adding "ing" sounds nice and creative. like the mayday song 恋爱ing. it gives a "on going" feel. But negative ones adding "ing" makes the word worse.